Favorite Quotes

“If growing up is painful for the Southern Black girl, being aware of her displacement is the rust on the razor that threatens the throat. It is an unnecessary insult.”

"Be the change you wish to see in the world."

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”

"...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you; we are in charge of our attitudes."

“There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.”

“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”

Tuesday, January 20, 2026

Dear Parents,

Today, my son and I had a really good visit with his early intervention occupational therapist.

It’s not easy having someone in your home—watching, observing, offering guidance on your parenting. Even when it’s gentle and well-intentioned, it can stir up hard thoughts: I should already know this. Maybe I’ve been doing it wrong. Am I being criticized?

But the truth is, I’m not being corrected. I’m being coached—in real time—to better support my child, considering his unique sensory and attachment needs.

Parenting is not easy.

Single parenting is not easy.

And still, I’m learning—about my capacity for love, commitment, balance, patience, and presence. I’m learning how much I can stretch without breaking. How much care lives in me.

If today felt tender for you too, you’re not alone.

Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.
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