Favorite Quotes
“If growing up is painful for the Southern Black girl, being aware of her displacement is the rust on the razor that threatens the throat. It is an unnecessary insult.”
"Be the change you wish to see in the world."
“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”
"...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you; we are in charge of our attitudes."
“There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.”
“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”
Wednesday, October 15, 2025
She Got Kids
I'm not here to put you at ease about dating a single mother.
Baby, if that's your boundary, to thy own self be true. Honor you.
I'm not here to hold my head down as I audition—
to convince you that I'm different.
I will not assuage your discomfort with my reality
or pretend it's easy to be part of this family.
Like you, I was singing Lyfe Jennings in my bedroom at fourteen, thinking,
"He right. That will never be me."
I understand. I truly do.
But you're wrestling with you—
and I don’t break up fights amongst men.
So I’ll let this end where it began:
I’m not here to put you at ease about choosing a single mother.
King, if that’s your boundary, to thy own self be true.
Go in peace. Honor you.