Favorite Quotes

“If growing up is painful for the Southern Black girl, being aware of her displacement is the rust on the razor that threatens the throat. It is an unnecessary insult.”

"Be the change you wish to see in the world."

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”

"...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you; we are in charge of our attitudes."

“There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.”

“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”

Tuesday, September 26, 2023

No Heat. No Judgement.

I do not have the grace to live anyone else's life or vision. There is peace in understanding this. It enables me to let go of comparisons and expectations that do not align with the gifts and grace in my possession. 

It is easy to impose and be accosted by external ideas about intrinsic identity and knowing. It's easy to become a defender of one's way as the way. I'm trying to get to a place of removing "the heat and judgement."

I want to practice awe in lieu of persuasion, justification, reduction, or comparison. I can marvel at the grace you were given to execute your mission and vision and live your life without deeming any of it as worthwhile or lackluster. No heat. No judgement. Simply appreciation. 

In his grace, God has given us different gifts for doing certain things well. So if God has given you the ability to prophesy, speak out with as much faith as God has given you. If your gift is serving others, serve them well. If you are a teacher, teach well. If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly. Romans 12:6‭-‬8 NLT