Favorite Quotes

“If growing up is painful for the Southern Black girl, being aware of her displacement is the rust on the razor that threatens the throat. It is an unnecessary insult.”

"Be the change you wish to see in the world."

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”

"...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you; we are in charge of our attitudes."

“There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.”

“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”

Saturday, August 27, 2022

Edible Assignments (Therapy Homework)

I really enjoy cookies and cake especially from someone else's kitchen. 😅 It's a completely different story with mixing and baking. The thing that really bugs me about home baking is that shit falls apart. 

You can have all of the ingredients. You can measure, measure again, and triple check your measurements. You can follow the recipe step by step, and the end result can still vary in taste and appearance. Even batches of the same recipe can be different!

At the end of the day, there are always things (ovens, cookware, etcetera) that may be out of your ability to control or change. There will always be variations that impact the final result. 

Take these cookies for example. I used quality ingredients. I followed the recipe as I've done in the past. Today, however, is my first time using this oven. Plus, I got dark brown sugar by mistake. 

I can see the difference these little changes made, but a cookie is still a cookie. It doesn't have to be perfect to be delicious. (As the quality person for these cookies, I can attest that they are more than edible. 🤷🏿‍♀️😉) 

Perhaps, it *is* all about patience and acceptance. 

P.S.: You better believe I made the internet technician take one with a bottle of water. (I'm basically both of my Grandmothers at this point. 😂😊)