Favorite Quotes
“If growing up is painful for the Southern Black girl, being aware of her displacement is the rust on the razor that threatens the throat. It is an unnecessary insult.”
"Be the change you wish to see in the world."
“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”
"...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you; we are in charge of our attitudes."
“There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.”
“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”
Friday, December 30, 2016
16 Things In 2016
2016 was rough! The country endured a tumultuous, divisive election. Many people experienced a surplus of painful, difficult, and downright rude experiences; the #unnecessaryinsults were plentiful this year. In spite of these things, 2016 was not all bad. Today I took a moment to think about 16 good, positive, and/or happy things that happened in my life and/or the lives of those I love. I encourage you to do the same.
#16thingsin2016
1. My mother married someone who loves her, respects her, and makes her laugh...A LOT! (I'm talking fits of laughter. It's good to see.)
2. I witnessed my youngest brother become a responsible young man, and he became a husband.
3. I am an Auntie-to-be! (My aboved mentioned brother and sister-in-love are expecting their first child, my mom's first grandchild.)
4. I [finally] started driving and got my drivers license and a car. (Refer to my blog post, Anxiety Suffered Casualties, to understand why this could possibly make the list.)
5. I moved to a different city.
6. I made the highest hourly wage of my professional career...so far.
7. I started working in an environment that is absolutely good for me. I love it!
8. I saw a beloved friend for the first time in about six years.
9. I moved so much closer to authenticity this year, and it felt good!
10. I settled on a permanent name for my blog. Shout out @Unnecessary_Insults!
11. I became celibate. (For me, at this point in my life, this is a really good thing.)
12. Multiple unhealthy relationships & friendships ended.
13. My younger brother got into fabulous shape, became health conscious, and is a constant source of inspiration/motivation to me and others. Shout out to my Bubba.
14. My uncle is home after spending many years incarcerated. (I know this would have filled my Granny's heart with happiness.)
15. My relationship with both of my parents has improved, and I better understand and appreciate them.
16. I shared so many good, hearty, soul-needed laughs with Grandma who is still with us today.
#16thingsin2016
1. My mother married someone who loves her, respects her, and makes her laugh...A LOT! (I'm talking fits of laughter. It's good to see.)
2. I witnessed my youngest brother become a responsible young man, and he became a husband.
3. I am an Auntie-to-be! (My aboved mentioned brother and sister-in-love are expecting their first child, my mom's first grandchild.)
4. I [finally] started driving and got my drivers license and a car. (Refer to my blog post, Anxiety Suffered Casualties, to understand why this could possibly make the list.)
5. I moved to a different city.
6. I made the highest hourly wage of my professional career...so far.
7. I started working in an environment that is absolutely good for me. I love it!
8. I saw a beloved friend for the first time in about six years.
9. I moved so much closer to authenticity this year, and it felt good!
10. I settled on a permanent name for my blog. Shout out @Unnecessary_Insults!
11. I became celibate. (For me, at this point in my life, this is a really good thing.)
12. Multiple unhealthy relationships & friendships ended.
13. My younger brother got into fabulous shape, became health conscious, and is a constant source of inspiration/motivation to me and others. Shout out to my Bubba.
14. My uncle is home after spending many years incarcerated. (I know this would have filled my Granny's heart with happiness.)
15. My relationship with both of my parents has improved, and I better understand and appreciate them.
16. I shared so many good, hearty, soul-needed laughs with Grandma who is still with us today.