Favorite Quotes

“If growing up is painful for the Southern Black girl, being aware of her displacement is the rust on the razor that threatens the throat. It is an unnecessary insult.”

"Be the change you wish to see in the world."

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”

"...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you; we are in charge of our attitudes."

“There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.”

“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”

Saturday, September 19, 2015

Queen of Failed Selfies

Everyone is good at something, and I am particularly skilled at selfie failures. It is challenging for me to capture a "perfect" selfie which is part of the reason I post pictures sporadically.
Since Friday, my 25th birthday, I have been snapping pictures trying to find that one social media ready photo.

The shit isn't working. In every photo, I am blurry, too many flaws are visible, and/or I look super uncomfortable. My quest to find the photo that captured the essence of 25 wasn't going to happen.

Or so I thought...

I am the self-proclaimed Queen of Failed Selfies. I accept my fate.

I will not, now or nor in the future, post a selfie that is going to garner "mad" attention. And, I, like 10 minutes ago, became okay with that. I am a grown ass woman, and I have to start thinking as such.

Why should I feel angst about posting a picture on Facebook? That is petty. It's superficial, and it is bullshit, self-inflicted bullshit.

Because I love to go from one extreme to another, I am now on the side of the spectrum that couldn't care less.

If I post a picture, and I think I look pretty, that's all the validation needed. 

SO...

Those who know me well are aware that I am a bona-fide slack wearer. Jeans make me feel uncomfortable and extremely self-conscious. 
Well today I wore a pair, and I liked it. 

Here's the essence of 25 for me:
A blurry selfie with things that make me self-conscious on full display including my feet that are blending into the carpet for some reason

Lol.