Favorite Quotes

“If growing up is painful for the Southern Black girl, being aware of her displacement is the rust on the razor that threatens the throat. It is an unnecessary insult.”

"Be the change you wish to see in the world."

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”

"...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you; we are in charge of our attitudes."

“There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.”

“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”

Thursday, August 20, 2015

Incongruent living is NOT for me.

I've mastered facades, conformity, passivity, and inauthenticity. I do not want nor do I like the results those things produce.

Now, high on my list of life priorities is being myself and getting my shit together. And, I am not going to apologize if it makes anyone else uncomfortable.

I am purposely caring less about what others think.
I am purposely speaking up.
I am purposely being myself in all of my states including the ones I usually attempt to hide from most people.

Incongruent living is not for me.

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