There's something precious about removing ambiguity in connection. Even when it's hard. Especially when it may hurt one or both people. At its most loving capacity, Clarity says, "I care about you too much to let you sit in the dark about who I am, where I am, and what I desire, so here is the information you need to be in the light." Other times, Clarity asserts "I respect you and myself too much to allow confusion." Understanding is thoughtful gift to give to another; it is a return of dignity. Ambiguity is where anxiety thrives. Clarity is where the muscles unclench.
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In all of our getting, may we get understanding. Selah. Let it be so.
clarity
noun
clar·i·ty | \ ˈkler-ə-tē , ˈkla-rə- \
plural clarities
Definition
: the quality of being clear: such as
a: the quality of being easily understood
b: the state of having a full, detailed, and orderly mental grasp of something
c: the quality of being easily seen or heard
d: the quality of being easily seen through
e: a lack of marks, spots, or blemishes
