Favorite Quotes

“If growing up is painful for the Southern Black girl, being aware of her displacement is the rust on the razor that threatens the throat. It is an unnecessary insult.”

"Be the change you wish to see in the world."

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”

"...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you; we are in charge of our attitudes."

“There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.”

“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”

Sunday, September 19, 2021

Cheers to 31 (Happy Birthday to Me)

I am managing a lot of change, and I have not handled it the best. While I typically look forward to getting older, I was stressing about turning 31. "30 was supposed to be a productive year, and I haven't accomplished anything."

The pity party was real, y'all. 🥴

On Tuesday or Wednesday, I decided to make a list of this year's progress. I was surprised that there was progress. Although everything did not happen as I wanted or planned, good happened at 30. Between September 2020 and September 2021:

I earned the most of my professional life.
I reduced my debt by over $7K.
I increased my assets.
I increased my credit score.
I decreased my weight and kept it off. 🙌🏿
I contributed to a travel fund.
I ziplined and rock climbed.
I walked more than ever. (I logged over 1 million steps per Fitbit, and that damn thing was broken for so many months throughout the year. 🤦🏿‍♀️🤪)
I visited my family for the first time since 2018.
I saw Azelynn and met Ariah and Azariah (my nieces and nephews).
I visited two states I never traveled to before.
I fell in love with Fredrik Backman and read/listened to many other books.
I joined the NRWA and started preparing for certification.
I was hired and paid to write resumes. (Technically, I am a paid writer. 🤯)

Good happened. I'm so grateful for all the people who are/were a part of my 30th year of life. I am grateful for these experiences. I am grateful for this progress. I am grateful for everyone who made me feel seen, loved, and valued on my 31st birthday. I am especially grateful for Karina and Tomi.

Cheers to 31! 🥂🥳🎉🎂 May good & progress continue to happen. 🤞🏿🙏🏿