You feed her a mouthful of lies, sandwiched between "real talk" and "that's 100." She fights to ignore the churning of her stomach, her intuition's adverse reaction to unpalatable nonsense. You walk away from the conversation, give yourself a mental round of applause, much too self-obsessed to even entertain the thought that her digestion had nothing to do with you. It wasn't the eloquence of your speech that led that woman to accept poorly disguised feces. It wasn't the solidity of your game that caused her to take you back after you called her degrading names. It wasn't the quality of your sex that contributed to her endurance of your fists. Sheltered by ego and self-deceit, you don't see what your presence in her life really means.
Favorite Quotes
“If growing up is painful for the Southern Black girl, being aware of her displacement is the rust on the razor that threatens the throat. It is an unnecessary insult.”
"Be the change you wish to see in the world."
“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”
"...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you; we are in charge of our attitudes."
“There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.”
“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”